Sandra planned to approach the woman right after she was done serving drinks. She thought of a good excuse ahead of time, just in case her colleagues got curious about what she was doing. She decided she’d wait for the perfect moment when the man accompanying her went to the restroom, so she could talk to the woman privately.

As Sandra kept an eye on the man and woman, her patience was wearing thin. She was on high alert, waiting for just the right moment when the man would get up, perhaps to stretch his legs or use the restroom. That would be her chance to step in and check on the woman.